What The Fall of Diddy Didn’t Show About Sean Combs and My Story
By DeWitt “Relentless Aaron” Gilmore
When The Fall of Diddy premiered, it did something the world has waited for: it exposed the darker side of Sean “Diddy” Combs. Over four episodes, the series shone a light on decades of abuse, manipulation, and exploitation. As one of the voices featured in the documentary, I appreciated the opportunity to speak directly to Combs and tell the world what he truly is—a menace. But as much ground as the series covered, some critical details—especially those related to my story—were left on the cutting room floor.
What happened between Combs and me wasn’t just an “altercation,” a car chase, or a “side-swipe,” as some have simplified it. And no, it certainly wasn’t a “two-way shoot-out,” as I’ve heard some incorrectly frame it. It was part of a larger narrative of bullying and calculated sabotage that reflects the very essence of who Sean Combs has been throughout his career.
There was even a moment in the series that begged for deeper exploration. The driver who chauffeured Combs, Jennifer Lopez, and Wolf that night testified that he saw Combs with a gun in hand. That revelation was a perfect opportunity to question JLo’s involvement—or at least shed light on what she knew. In such a small space, are we really to believe Lopez didn’t see the gun? This was a chance to open that door just a little wider. But maybe pushing too far risked another documentary—The Fall of JLo—and I imagine Rolling Stone and Sony wouldn’t have wanted that.
While I understand the limitations of time and scope in a production like this, it’s important to recognize the weight of what was left on the cutting room floor.
What the Docuseries Left on the Cutting Room Floor
Before the confrontation highlighted in the series, there were years of calculated moves by Combs to sabotage me. These weren’t random acts of aggression. They were part of a larger strategy to undermine me professionally and personally.
One glaring example was Combs stealing an idea I had for a community basketball game in Harlem. With the help of Wendy Williams, who was working at the same radio station I was paying the time, Combs took the concept and executed it the very next day, cutting me out entirely.
Moments like this define who Sean Combs is. He doesn’t just compete; he dominates, manipulates, and takes. These aren’t isolated incidents. They’re part of a larger pattern of behavior—a pattern I’ve seen play out not only in my life but in the lives of many others who’ve crossed paths with him.
A Larger Culture of Exploitation
What The Fall of Diddy did well was expose the fear and exploitation that Combs has cultivated over decades. From his threats against Vibe Editor-in-Chief Danyel Smith to his abuse of women like Cassie Ventura, and even the tragic stampede at City College that claimed nine lives, the series connected the dots on a deeply disturbing legacy.
But there’s more to this story. My friend Easy Mo Bee, a talented producer behind hits like “Flava in Ya Ear,” was brought into the storyline, but he spoke about beats and music vs the foul behavior of Diddy bullying him out of money and music. Something that would’ve weighed heavy into the narrative of Diddy’s usual practices. Predator. Stories like his—and mine—are part of the same thread.
Sean Combs didn’t just hurt individuals. He built a culture of fear. Whether in his professional dealings, personal relationships, or public persona, he thrived on manipulation and control. The documentary touched on this, but it didn’t fully capture how deeply rooted this pattern is.
Turning Pain Into Purpose
Reflecting on my involvement in the docuseries, I’ve realized this story is about more than just Sean Combs. It’s about standing up to bullies, challenging toxic behavior, and creating a culture of accountability.
That’s why I’m turning my experiences into action. I’m launching a nationwide anti-bullying campaign to empower young people to de-escalate conflicts, focus on their goals, and think long-term.
Bullying doesn’t just happen in schools. It happens in boardrooms, creative industries, and relationships. My mission is to give young people the tools to recognize and resist toxic behavior in all its forms.
This isn’t just about looking back. It’s about moving forward with purpose, clarity, and resilience.
Why This Story Matters
People often ask why I continue to speak about Sean Combs. Why not just move on? My answer is simple: because it matters.
Yes, I know I’m personalizing things from my own point of view, which is natural. But I am indeed inside of the fishbowl as well as outside of it. Inside the bowl had Andre Harrell introducing me to Diddy as “Puffy, my intern.” And outside of the fishbowl is me seeing how he’s evolved as a successful entrepreneur from my hometown, and also as a predator, surrendering to his mannish, carnal desires–no different than R. Kelly, Epstein, Weinstein, Nygard or Cosby. All of them are but BOYS BEHAVING BADLY, except on steroids, considering all the excess that gave them the ultimate Godly leverage.
This isn’t just my story. It’s the story of everyone who has been silenced, intimidated, or manipulated by powerful people. It’s a story about a culture that allows bullying and abuse to thrive. And it’s a story about what happens when we finally say, “Enough.”
I’m not interested in revenge or rehashing the past for its own sake. My focus is on creating a better future—one where accountability is the norm and resilience is a skill we teach to the next generation.
While The Fall of Diddy is an important step in exposing the truth, it’s just the beginning. There’s more to be said—not just about Sean Combs but about the systems that enabled him.
This is about more than one man. It’s about a movement. It’s about choosing to rise above fear, to focus on what truly matters, and to empower others to do the same.
What Comes Next
I’m ready to share more of my story and help push this conversation forward. But more importantly, I’m focused on what lies ahead—building a future where we prioritize accountability, empathy, and strength.
Sean Combs’ story isn’t just about his downfall. It’s a wake-up call for all of us. Let’s make sure we’re listening.
DeWitt “Relentless Aaron” Gilmore
Author, Speaker, Advocate